Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most amazingly simple things that we can ask when we want to learn about someone else.
Dale Carnegie in his mega-best-selling book "How to win friends and influence people" shares about the benefit of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will most likely attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself leap-frogging to final base, saving a lot of time and energy trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.
If you're a woman and want to pamper a guy's ego and make him feel super good and wanted, then just ask him lots of questions and then really listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a dangling string in seconds!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or girl to get conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, however just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What is you all time favourite movie and why?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?
4. If you could suddenly become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone made a funny comedy movie about your life, which part of the story would be the funniest and why?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. If you had a chance to go back in time and do something that you feel you should have done what would that be?
8. What's the most funniest experience you have had in your whole life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?
11. What's the worst lie you've ever told in your life? Where you caught out?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. When you meet someone for the first time and you do not like them what would you normally do?
14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman - intelligence, a good body or good looks?
Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!
15. Have you ever had sex in a public place? If so did you get caught?
16. What's the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What turns you on sexual the most and why?
19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?
20. Have you ever been caught touching yourself sexually? If you did, how old where you and who caught you?
21. Have you ever serial sex - with one person and then been with a different person somewhere else within the same day?
Dale Carnegie in his mega-best-selling book "How to win friends and influence people" shares about the benefit of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will most likely attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you're a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself leap-frogging to final base, saving a lot of time and energy trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.
If you're a woman and want to pamper a guy's ego and make him feel super good and wanted, then just ask him lots of questions and then really listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a dangling string in seconds!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or girl to get conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, however just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.
Here's 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What is you all time favourite movie and why?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?
4. If you could suddenly become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone made a funny comedy movie about your life, which part of the story would be the funniest and why?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. If you had a chance to go back in time and do something that you feel you should have done what would that be?
8. What's the most funniest experience you have had in your whole life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?
11. What's the worst lie you've ever told in your life? Where you caught out?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. When you meet someone for the first time and you do not like them what would you normally do?
14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman - intelligence, a good body or good looks?
Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!
15. Have you ever had sex in a public place? If so did you get caught?
16. What's the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What turns you on sexual the most and why?
19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?
20. Have you ever been caught touching yourself sexually? If you did, how old where you and who caught you?
21. Have you ever serial sex - with one person and then been with a different person somewhere else within the same day?
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